For some reason, cheaters somehow justify their infidelity with some ridiculous trickery, causing you to think that their cheating may actually be your fault?
Never fall for that shit, please.
Be careful of the manipulative backstabbers out there that know the rights things to say, using their puppy dog eyes at the right moments.
If you’ve ever been cheated on then, you have definitely heard one of these sneak their way into the various apologies.
We all get drunk and horny, but it’s no excuse to engage in sexual activities with someone else other than you’re a partner. It’s hard not to make rash and impulsive decisions, especially in the spur of the moment but if you sincerely care about your relationship you’ll fight the urge.
If you’re in a relationship and getting blacked out is still one of your priorities, it may be time to reevaluate what you’re doing with your life. You’re a little limited when you’re taken, but it doesn’t mean that you should simply stop having fun, just do so without trying to get laid by someone new.
Even if alcohol impairs your judgment, you should still be able to wrap your head around the fact that you’re dating someone other than the random person you’re pursuing.
It Just Happened:
Having intercourse with somebody else doesn’t “just happen.” It’s called self-control, and there is no reason that things should have gotten to the point where sex was the only available option to end the night.
Nothing sexual ‘just happens’ without any intent or motive, regardless of who instigated it, it takes two to tango. If your partner is taking time out of their day or night to build sexual tension with someone other than you and actually acting on it, they obviously know what happens when two horny adults engage for longer than necessary.
You Were Gone:
If you’re in a committed relationship you sure as hell learned some sort of patience so you should be able to withstand some time without your partner.
And might I add, if you’re old enough to be in a serious relationship then you’ve probably had experience pleasuring yourself, so there’s no reason you had to turn to someone else to get you off?
There are numerous activities to do when you’re bored and without your partner, and having sex with someone else shouldn’t be one of the options.
Please don’t be a fool and accept these sad excuses by rationalizing them as their apologies. You’re much better than that, and the least they can do is own up to it instead of blaming anything or anyone but themselves.
We are all human and make mistakes here and there, but if someone is going to throw a relationship away, it should be worth more than these sorry excuses.
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